Soul companion

I am amazed at how shadows can change one’s perspective on the world. For instance, the Foley Cut-Off was a dirt road that ran through the neighborhood of our Taylor County home. During the daytime, we were free to roam from house to house to play or to find the grandest old Oak Tree for climbing. From my earliest memories, I recall walking that dusty limerock road, kicking rocks, and feeling completely safe in my little world.
However, the road held an ominous perception when the shadows began to fall around sundown. The trees that were once friendly for climbing were suddenly filled with the eyes of unknown creatures. The sounds of cracking limbs pierced the night air. The way the evening breeze flowed across the shrubbery would only add to the imagination of any frightened child. The worst feeling was that, regardless of how fast I walked, whatever was walking behind me walked even faster.
Curious, though, the shadows were not so bad when my sister was with me on those late evenings. Somehow, the fear subsided. We talked about sister things and who was going to clean our room. We enjoyed being with each other. Before we knew it, we were walking through the front door in time for supper. We were safe at home.
There are countless biblical truths hidden within the small moments of my childhood. Presently, I now understand my sister was just as terrified of the shadows as I was. However, together, we were strong enough to face any imaginary foe. I have discovered there is strength within the company of another soul.
Elijah learned this truth when he stood before the Lord on Mt Horeb. Elijah was frightened of the wind, fire, and earthquake, frightened of being alone. Then the Lord revealed Himself to the Prophet in a soothing voice. The Lord spoke of the Prophet Elisha, who would become Elijah’s apprentice in future endeavors. Through this revelation, Elijah gained newfound courage (1 Kings 19:11-18).
Jesus showed this same wisdom in the New Testament when He walked the earth. In Mark 6:7-13 Jesus gathered His disciples for an assignment that would frighten any human. They were to proclaim the need for redemption, which spoke against the current belief system. They would cast out demons and heal the sick. Many would turn against them in anger. Consequently, Jesus sent the disciples out in pairs so they would not be alone.
King Solomon wrote about this principle of needing another soul companion. He said two are better than one because they can produce a greater harvest. When one falls into trouble, the other can lift him. Two can find warmth in a cold world because when two stand together, the shadows of darkness fade – a threefold cord is not quickly broken (Ecclesiastes 4:10-13). Let us not be a broken people, allowing the shadows to win.
Reflecting on those evening walks down Foley Cut-Off with my sister, I realize the power of companionship. As we navigated the darkness together, we rooted ourselves in a bond that made the unknown less intimidating. Those moments were not just about overcoming our childhood fears but also a stark reminder of the strength we gain in togetherness. Remember, in this life journey, we can transform our fear into courage when we walk together. As soul companions, we can illuminate the darkest roadways and lift each other toward hope and strength.
Romans 12:10-12 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.

Cheryl Mixon-Cruce is Pastor of Ochlockonee Bay United Methodist Church and Sopchoppy United Methodist Church.